note: not everyone with BPD is the same. these are *examples,* not a rule book. also, i want to make it clear: there are four subtypes of Borderline Personality Disorder. one of them is called quiet/discouraged BPD. some professionals use it in clinical settings, others don’t. the one who diagnosed me in 2020 did, and i was considered petulant at the time and moved to quiet eventually. but ‘quiet BPD’ is NOT a different diagnosis nor is it a different disorder. it’s *still BPD,* and you still ha